One Journalist’s view of Mexico

One Journalist’s View of Mexico

By Linda Ellerbee

Sometimes I’ve been called a maverick because I don’t always agree
with my colleagues, but then, only dead fish swim with the stream all
the time. The stream here is Mexico.

You would have to be living on another planet to avoid hearing how
dangerous Mexico has become, and, yes, it’s true drug wars have
escalated violence in Mexico, causing collateral damage, a phrase I
hate. Collateral damage is a cheap way of saying that innocent people,
some of them tourists, have been robbed, hurt or killed.

But that’s not the whole story. Neither is this. This is my story.

I’m a journalist who lives in New York City, but has spent
considerable time in Mexico, specifically Puerto Vallarta, for the
last four years. I’m in Vallarta now. And despite what I’m getting
from the U.S. media, the 24-hour news networks in particular, I feel
as safe here as I do at home in New York, possibly safer. I walk the
streets of my Vallarta neighborhood alone day or night. And I don’t
live in a gated community, or any other All-Gringo neighborhood. I
live in Mexico. Among Mexicans. I go where I want (which does not
happen to include bars where prostitution and drugs are the basic
products), and take no more precautions than I would at home in New
York; which is to say I don’t wave money around, I don’t act the Ugly
American, I do keep my eyes open, I’m aware of my surroundings, and I
try not to behave like a fool.

I’ve not always been successful at that last one. One evening a friend
left the house I was renting in Vallarta at that time, and,
unbeknownst to me, did not slam the automatically-locking door on her
way out. Sure enough, less than an hour later a stranger did come into
my house. A burglar? Robber? Kidnapper? Killer? Drug lord?

No, it was a local police officer, the “beat cop” for our
neighborhood, who, on seeing my unlatched door, entered to make sure
everything (including me) was okay. He insisted on walking with me
around the house, opening closets, looking behind doors and, yes, even
under beds, to be certain no one else had wandered in, and that
nothing was missing. He was polite, smart and kind, but before he
left, he lectured me on having not checked to see that my friend had
locked the door behind her. In other words, he told me to use my
common sense.

Do bad things happen here? Of course they do. Bad things happen
everywhere, but the murder rate here is much lower than, say, New
Orleans, and if there are bars on many of the ground floor windows of
houses here, well, the same is true where I live, in Greenwich
Village, which is considered a swell neighborhood — house prices start
at about $4 million (including the bars on the ground floor
windows)..

There are good reasons thousands of people from the United States are
moving to Mexico every month, and it’s not just the lower cost of
living, a hefty tax break and less snow to shovel. Mexico is a
beautiful country, a special place. The climate varies, but is
plentifully mild, the culture is ancient and revered, the young are
loved unconditionally, the old are respected, and I have yet to hear
anyone mention Britney Spears, Lindsay Lohan, or Madonna’s attempt to
adopt a second African child, even though, with such a late start, she
cannot possibly begin to keep up with Anglelina Jolie.

And then there are the people. Generalization is risky, but— in
general — Mexicans are warm, friendly, generous and welcoming. If you
smile at them, they smile back. If you greet a passing stranger on the
street, they greet you back. If you try to speak even a little
Spanish, they tend to treat you as though you were fluent. Or at least
not an idiot. I have had taxi drivers track me down after leaving my
wallet or cell phone in their cab. I have had someone run out of a
store to catch me because I have overpaid by twenty cents. I have been
introduced to and come to love a people who celebrate a day dedicated
to the dead as a recognition of the cycles of birth and death and
birth — and the 15th birthday of a girl, an important rite in becoming
a woman — with the same joy.

Too much of the noise you’re hearing about how dangerous it is to come
to Mexico is just that — noise. But the media love noise, and too many
journalists currently making it don’t live here. Some have never even
been here. They just like to be photographed at night, standing near a
spotlighted border crossing, pointing across the line to some
imaginary country from hell. It looks good on TV.

Another thing. The U.S. media tend to lump all of Mexico into one big
bad bowl. Talking about drug violence in Mexico without naming a state
or city where this is taking place is rather like looking at the
horror of Katrina and saying, “Damn. Did you know the U.S. is under
water?” or reporting on the shootings at Columbine or the bombing of
the Federal building in Oklahoma City by saying that kids all over the
U.S. are shooting their classmates and all the grownups are blowing up
buildings. The recent rise in violence in Mexico has mostly occurred
in a few states, and especially along the border. It is real, but it
does not describe an entire country.

It would be nice if we could put what’s going on in Mexico in
perspective, geographically and emotionally. It would be nice if we
could remember that, as has been noted more than once, these drug wars
wouldn’t be going on if people in the United States didn’t want the
drugs, or if other people in the United States weren’t selling Mexican
drug lords the guns. Most of all, it would be nice if more people in
the United States actually came to this part of America (Mexico is
also America, you will recall) to see for themselves what a fine place
Mexico really is, and how good a vacation (or a life) here can be.

So come on down and get to know your southern neighbors. I think
you’ll like it here. Especially the people.

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6 comments

  1. Darryl Silva

    This is a wonderful article. We live in San Felipe, Baja Mexico. We moved here from the Central Valley of California. Our area is as charming and tranquil a place as you could ever find on the planet. Yet we receive so many phone calls or emails from people asking if it is safe to come here. Many of these people own property here for goodness sakes. They should know better. But the media has done a masterful job once again in telling half truths, or leading the listener or reader to a conclusion that are less than truthful. We happen to know what the facts are here in Mexico. Being aware of the true story in Mexico and hearing the absurd stories from what should be trusted news sources, makes everything else they report less credible. Our news reporting organizations are supposed to be our link to facts. Not a vehicle for agendas perpetrated by those same outlets or Governments. But, I guess we live in a different world now. Where facts carry less import than do stories of intrigue, death and violence. Slanted news has become the norm in the mainstream media. How sad for those too lazy to dig a little deeper than the thirty second sound bite for the real truth. The real news. How sad for us all.

  2. Lisa Blackwell

    I couldn’t agree more with this article. I work in Mexico and plan to retire there. The Mexico I see is safe and beautiful. And I will not let the blinded American that only listens to the media tell me otherwise. The way I see it, its their loss.

  3. judy bishop

    I have to agree with this article. I have lived in the small town of San Felipe in northern Baja for almost two years now. I love it, and I feel much safer here than in a lot of places I’ve been in the states. Just use the common sense you were born with. You wouldn’t walk down a dark alley in the middle of the night in the states, so don’t do it here. I think we should take responsibility for our own safety so don’t act like an idiot. Talk to your friends that live in Mexico and I think you’ll come away with a totally different point of view. Just remember that bad news sells papers and gets good TV ratings. So don’t believe everything you hear or read. Remember that what you’re hearing and reading in the news is a very limited point of view, so take it with a grain a salt and do your own investigation.

  4. I am sending a link to this article to everyone I know. and – from now on – when asked the same old tired questions I have already answered a million times, I will simply give people this link and save my breath. Thank you Thank you Thank you!

  5. I totally agree with all the above…Linda has said it beautifully!
    I hope to sail my boat to Mexico and join you ex-pat sailors and retire there.
    If the media blinded people want to believe what they hear that’s just fine,keep them from away from Mexico….will be much nicer and less crowded.

  6. Rebecca Mann

    Wow,,,just found this website…..I too live in San Felipe full time since 2006….My husband and I retired down here thinking that we would stay a few months and then go back to Ca,,for a while,,,That only lasted 1 year,,Our home overlooks the beautiful Sea of Cortez,,,I have never had any fear of anyone or anything…The Mexican people are just wonderful,, So full of life..I also agree with everyone above..Now when people ask all there stupid questions,,I just say,,Yeah,,,you’re right,,just stay where you are,,,because sure enough,,they would be just the one to have a bad expierence…

    Living the Vida Loco
    Rebecca Mann

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